Dearly beloved, we are gathered here today to mourn celebrate the end of the reign of the “guilt-free” food, the “cheat” meal, the “clean” eating. Enough. Finito. The end.
The language we use to talk about food is so important, and affects not only what we eat but how we feel about the food we eat. I’ve been asked so many times what my ideal “cheat meal” or “guilty pleasure” is, and my answer is always the same: I don’t have one.
If you buy a brownie that advertises itself as “guilt-free”, does this mean other brownies are full of guilt, and, by default, you are therefore also guilty? In the same way if you don’t “eat clean” does that make you a dirty person?
This notion of attaching a moral compass to the food we eat is beyond ridiculous and potentially dangerous. Implying you should feel guilty for eating certain foods or that certain foods are unclean does not promote a healthy relationship with food, and can even fuel the fires for an eating disorder.
“Food doesn’t have a moral aspect. Only the people eating it do” – Jay Rayner
No matter what you eat, you are not unclean, dirty, guilty, or cheating. You are amazing, and eating these foods doesn’t make you a better or worse person than anyone else. Let’s make a pact here right now. Enough with the guilt-tripping and unnecessary moralisation of food and eating. Let’s just enjoy food for what it is: fuel for life and happiness!
Cassie says
Totally loving this post! We need to stop viewing certain foods are good or bad! I prefer to see foods as nutrients for the body, and then the other foods as nutrients for the mind and soul. So you can definitely enjoy both a kale salad and dark chocolate brownies if you want to!
Ashley Maddeq says
I love this! What a wonderful post to read first thing this morn. Food does not have a moral compass. Will reuse this!
Lottie says
Those could be my words. Entirely. Pixie, you always manage to put my thoughts into such clever blogposts. You’re the best!
Lottie
Natasha says
I’ve been talking about this for so long!! I hate how having chocolate, or treats, or indulgences are associated with guilt or cheating. We’re taught that cheating is wrong at school and should be punished, but no one should EVER be punished for enjoying the foods they want. That in itself constitutes an unhealthy relationship with food. From someone who suffered an eating disorder for so many years, I proudly enjoy treats and indulgent foods. Why? Because I deserve it.
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